Labour – all you need to know about the big day
Find out the ins and outs (literally) of labour. From those first contractions to mum’s recovery.
At a glance
There are different stages to labour
If you think labour’s started contact your hospital for advice on what to do
No two labours are the same - labour can go on for days or just a few hours
Mum’s after-care is important once baby is here
You can nearly see the finish line. But before you meet your new arrival, it’s labour time. Hopefully by now you’ve done all the early prep for labour. It’s hard to feel ‘ready’ as such, but we’ve got some handy details to help you feel as ready as ever for the most special delivery of all.
What are the early signs of labour?
If it’s your first time it’s not like anything you’ve ever gone through before, so it’s hard to know when it’s really time. But some of the early symptoms of labour have been compared to intense period pains. Here are some of the main symptoms of labour:
- Contractions or tightenings – If you feel intense period-like pains then labour could slowly be approaching. Contractions will get stronger and more intense over time. If they last more than 30 seconds, labour may have started. Time to call the hospital for advice on next steps.
- A sore back – you don’t always feel contractions in your tummy area.
- This one sounds a bit weird, but a "show" in your knickers; which is basically a jelly-like mucus called a mucus plug that comes from the entrance to your cervix. This can sometimes even happen a few days before labour.
- The sudden urge to go to the toilet, which is caused by your baby's head pressing on your bowel.
- Your waters breaking – You may or may not experience this. But if you do and it’s before you’re in labour you should call the hospital right away and they’ll be able to help you.
What is Braxton Hicks?
From about 24 weeks you may experience your tummy tightening or going hard at some point during pregnancy without going into labour, this is called Braxton Hicks. These usually only go on for a minute at a time, a few times a day and shouldn’t be too uncomfortable.
If you’re at all worried about whether it’s Braxton Hicks or ‘the real thing’ speak to your midwife to be sure. If the Braxton Hicks contractions become more intense and painful it’s a good opportunity to practice breathing for the big day. You can learn the breathing techniques at antenatal classes.
The stages of labour
Otherwise known as ‘established labour’, this first part is the longest and can go on for several hours, or in very rare circumstances a day or more. This is what happens:
- Your cervix begins to thin and open up as your baby’s head makes its way down and puts pressure on it.
- Contractions are regular, more intense, last longer, and are closer together.
- Keeping upright and mobile will help you handle the pain of the contractions.
- Your waters might break although lots of women go into labour without their waters breaking.
This stage is the bit between the first two main stages of labour, and is often characterised by a big emotional change. Women can feel overwhelmed at this point in their labour, but this phase is brief in duration (10-15 minutes) and your midwife and birth partner will encourage you and provide emotional support. This phase can be painful but that’s because your body is doing the important work of getting ready for the pushing it needs to do next.
You’re in this stage once your cervix is fully dilated at 10cm. This is the main event, the bit it’s all been building up to because the second stage actually lasts until your baby is born.
- You’ll probably feel pressure in your bottom and feel like pushing - but don’t worry if you don’t as your midwife will be there to guide you through it.
- Some babies might need help in delivery, so forceps or a ventouse may be used in the final stages. In some cases, a Caesarean Section may be recommended, but your obstetrician will explain everything and guide you.
The final stage of labour actually happens after the birth of your baby. Sorry, you’ve still got some work to do – but don’t worry, the hardest bit is over.
- Once baby is born you’ll be given an injection in the leg to help you deliver the placenta. Or you can let nature take its course – but that could take up to one hour or so.
- Everyone knows about the cutting the cord bit, but you may want to discuss with your midwife before delivery the possibility of keeping the placenta attached for a bit to help baby keep getting nutrients. This is known as ‘delayed cord clamping’. If you think this is something you might prefer then talk to your midwife about it and you can put it in your birthing plan – see our preparing for labour article for more details on your birthing plan if you’re reading this in plenty of time.
So, I think I’m in labour
When you think labour is kicking off then tell your birthing partner so they can help. Call the number on the front of your antenatal folder, if you’re in too much pain get your birth partner to dial and then pass you the phone. The midwives need to talk to mum-to-be and will be able to give advice and tell you if you need to come in yet or not. If your contractions are strong and around five minutes apart lasting 45-60 seconds it’s probably showtime.
If you’re having a homebirth follow the plan of action your midwife came up with. It’s best to give them a call so they can get to you in good time.
If you haven’t already thought about the positions you might like to take during labour then check out some of the options in our article about preparing for labour in advance.
Getting to the hospital
You could go into labour at any time so it’s worth having your route planned out from home or work. It pays to have some change sitting in your car for the hospital car park. It’s also a good idea for you or someone else to call the hospital to let them know you’re on the way – again, they’ll probably want to speak to mum-to-be.
What to bring
Hopefully your expertly packed maternity bags are ready to go and you’ve got a car seat for you to leave safely with baby afterwards. Someone can always get your stuff to you in the hospital if you go into labour somewhere unexpected. You should ideally have your pregnancy notes on you at all times anyway, so you can hand the folder and your birth plan in to the desk in the maternity unit.
Once you’re admitted
As we mentioned earlier, there are several stages of labour so if you arrive at hospital and they think it’s too early, you may be asked to go back home and keep as comfortable as possible until the time is right. So call first, let them know how you’re feeling, and see what they think. Once you’re in established labour a midwife will check you over and monitor the baby’s heart and position to work out what stage of labour you’re at.
The delivery room
The room will vary depending on the birthing centre or hospital. But you’ll probably have an adjustable bed and there should be a chair for your birthing partner. Some places will have bouncy balls to sit on, a birthing pool and maybe even en-suite facilities.